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Editor’s Note:
The recent arrest of John Mark Karr in connection with the death of
JonBenet Ramsey has brought the issue of sexual perversion and addiction
to the forefront of news reports. We will not here discuss his guilt or
innocence in regard to JonBenet’s death. That is a matter for the
courts.
But with all
the allegations about Karr’s sexual addiction being reported, we wanted
to address the question of whether or not you, as a Christian, can get
victory over your sinful habits — whatever they may be. Dr. Ankerberg
addressed this topic in the article reprinted below.
Are you a
Christian who has placed your faith in Jesus Christ, but struggle
privately in your personal life with many different problems? Have you
been surprised at how easy it is to still fall into sin? Has it made you
wonder, How does the Christian life work? Have you discovered that as a
Christian, you can know in your mind what God wants you to do, but your
bodily desires can still lead you to give in to sin in a moment’s time?
I remember
while I was in college a bright, young fellow accepted Jesus Christ as
his Savior. He came from a straight pagan background. He truly believed
in Christ to forgive him of his sin and eagerly started to live the
Christian life.
But just a
short time later he came to me and said, "I don’t understand all that
has happened to me. I became a Christian and really felt that God saved
me and had forgiven me of my sins. I was thrilled to know that I was
going to Heaven when I died. And I expected the Christian life to be one
victory after another, but that has not happened. In fact," he said,
"everywhere I go I seem to be tempted more now than before I became a
Christian. What’s worse, I find myself actually wanting to do some of
these sins, and as a result, I have committed them, only to feel guilty
after. How come these desires for some of my past sinful practices
haven’t disappeared? Am I not a Christian? Is this the normal Christian
life?"
I wonder if
his question is your question? I believe many Christian people are
living defeated lives right now. They don’t know the wonderful promises
God has made and how He can give them victory in their lives. If that
describes you, let me show you from God’s Word what the answer is.
To begin, I
want to look at what God says our condition was before we became
Christians; second, after we believed on Christ what changed; what did
God do for us and give to us? Third, after becoming Christians, why is
it that we can know what God says, but still experience sinful desires
which tempt us to sin? Why? What provision has God made for us so that
we will be able to live victoriously each day?
Well, first,
what does God say our condition was before we became Christians? The
Apostle Paul tells us in 1 Thessalonians 5:23 that man is made up of
spirit, soul and body. It is through our spirit that we can communicate
with God, or keep Him out.
Jesus said in
John 4:24, "God is Spirit; and those who worship Him must worship in
spirit and truth." The Bible sometimes refers to our spiritual nature as
our heart.
Ephesians 3:17
says, "So that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith." We are
told in Philippians 4:7, "The peace of God...shall guard your hearts and
your minds in Christ Jesus."
So our heart,
our spirit, is different and separate from our mind. What was our
heart’s spiritual nature like before we became Christians?
Ephesians
2:1-2 says the spiritual part of us was dead to God. In this spiritually
dead condition the Bible says we "followed the ways of this world and of
the ruler of the kingdom of the air" — that’s Satan — "the spirit who is
now at work in those who are disobedient."
In other
words, before we came to Christ, Satan was at work in our lives and we
were following his ways and ideas. This was so, even though we wouldn’t
have called it that or believed it. We were deceived.
Before we
became Christians, the Bible says we gratified the cravings of our
sinful nature and followed its desires and thoughts. As a result, we
were by nature objects of God’s wrath (Eph. 2:3).
How did we get
this sinful nature? According to the Bible, before Adam and Eve sinned,
their spiritual natures were alive, open and sensitive to God. But when
they sinned, their spiritual nature died and their communication with
God stopped. Adam and Eve didn’t physically die, but their spiritual
natures died, that is, their spirit became dead to God. Every man born
since the time of Adam has inherited a dead spiritual nature at birth.
Augustine
said, "Every man is born with a God-shaped vacuum that only Jesus Christ
can fill." But the problem is, our God-shaped vacuum is empty. Without
God, our dead spiritual natures have become hostile to God. We don’t
want to submit to God’s ways. We live every day to gratify our own
selfish desires and thoughts. Some theologians call this our sin nature.
Our sin nature leads us to view God as unnecessary in our life, someone
to whom we refuse to submit. In short, as a result of our sin natures,
we refuse to acknowledge the true God and make ourselves our god.
But secondly,
the Bible says man is not only made up of a spirit, but he has a soul.
The soul of man includes our mind, our will and our emotions—three
things which make each of us the unique personalities that we are.
However,
before we became Christians, the Bible describes how our sinful soul
functioned. In Romans 8:5 it says, "Those who live according to the
sinful nature have their minds set on what that nature desires.... the
sinful mind is hostile to God; it does not submit to God’s law nor can
it do so. Those controlled by the sinful nature cannot please God." In
other words, our sinful nature influences our soul — and specifically
here, according to the Bible, our sinful nature inclines our mind to
rebel against God.
How about our
will? Here again, because our spiritual nature was dead to God, with our
will we just didn’t want to submit to God’s way of living. So we didn’t.
What effect
did all of this have on our emotions? Well, our emotions were up and
down. There is no doubt sin is pleasing for the moment, but as one
writer has said, all the devil’s good looking apples have worms inside.
The Bible
says, "Be sure your sin will find you out." That is, sin may be fun for
the moment, but in the long run produces dreadful consequences. The
young couple that passionately delights in sex before marriage one night
has fun, but such sin can result in their contracting a sexually
transmitted disease, the girl becoming pregnant, or an emotional
breakup. As a result, our emotions go up and down and find no peace or
security.
But someone
might ask, "Isn’t it possible for sinful people to make up their minds
to do good things?" Yes, but our sinful disposition controls our will so
that many times the motive for our doing good things is selfish—so
people will see us doing good things. If we go to church, do a good
deed, or help someone out, how many times do we do such things because
we are worried about what people will think if we don’t do them? How
often do we do good things simply because we love God? Because we
willfully decide to live the way we want to live, our emotions fluctuate
wildly, especially when we fail.
Then third,
the Bible says we have a body. This body houses our soul and spirit. 2
Corinthians 5:1-8 says our body is an earthly tent. Before we were
Christians, we used our bodies to gratify our own selfish desires. Keep
in mind, when our body dies, the Bible says our spirit will continue to
exist, either with God in Heaven or separated from God in hell.
So let’s
summarize what the Bible says was the state of our spirit, soul and body
before we believed in Christ. According to Scripture, each of us was
spiritually dead to God. We were controlled by a sinful nature that
inclined us to live without God and for ourselves. Our mind and thinking
were hostile to God because we didn’t want to submit to His ways. We
lived our life to gratify our own selfish desires and thoughts. We were
sinners, candidates for hell and judgment, desperately in need of a
Savior to rescue us from ourselves. But now the good news—which is point
number two. One day we believed on Christ and asked Him to be our
Savior. What happened at that moment? What did God do for us? What
changed? How did God’s salvation affect our spirit, our soul and our
body? Well first, it’s always good to remember that the Bible teaches
salvation is a gift God provides for us; it is not something we work to
attain.
Titus 3:5-6
says, "God saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but
because of his mercy, he saved us through the washing of rebirth and
renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us generously through
Jesus Christ our Savior."
When we
believed on Christ, we were spiritually reborn. God gave us a new
spirit. God did for us what He prophesied in the Old Testament He would
do for people in the future.
In Ezekiel
36:26 God promised, "I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in
you.... I will put my Spirit in you and move you to follow my decrees
and be careful to keep my laws." So, when we believe on Christ, God
gives us a new heart, that is, a new spiritual nature. In addition, He
gives us the Holy Spirit who takes up residence and lives in our life.
In Jeremiah
31:33 we read, "‘After that time,’ declares the Lord, ‘I will put my law
in their minds and write it on their hearts. I will be their God and
they will be my people.... For I will forgive their wickedness and will
remember their sins no more.’"
God says He
gives a new spirit. This new spiritual heart, this new spiritual
disposition or nature desires to serve God, loves God, and wants to obey
Him. This new spiritual nature begins to influence our soul. Our mind
now begins to understand God’s truth. Our will and our emotions begin to
react to God’s truth. For example, our emotions are relieved that God
will not punish us for our sins and He now promises to be our friend. We
are excited and happy to know that He will someday take us to be with
Him in Heaven.
Third, at
conversion our body, following our mind, will, and emotions, starts to
become an instrument that Jesus lives in and through. He begins to use
our body in ways that witness to the world that He exists. If God does
all of this for us when we believe in Christ, then why do Christians
still have problems?
Do you think
you have a problem? C. S. Lewis tells a neat story about himself that
shows the problem we have. He said one day he was trying to prepare for
a speech, so he told his secretary, "Please, don’t disturb me."
She went out
of the room and closed the door. He got down to his books and started to
read. As he was writing his speech, all of a sudden his secretary burst
through the door and interrupted and said, "Hey, there’s a special
person that wants to talk to you!"
He got angry.
He said, "Please, I told you NOT to interrupt me! Get out of here!"
She left and
when she closed the door, he picked up his pen to write. Now he felt
bad. He had just lost his temper. He had just said some angry words to
his secretary.
He started
reasoning in his mind, "Well, I told her! But I shouldn’t have reacted
that way. I’m a Christian." He said, "Well, if she had let me know
that she was coming in, I could have prepared myself, calmed myself, and
I wouldn’t have acted that way and I wouldn’t have said those words."
But then he
thought some more about it. Yeah, it was a kind of "surprise attack." He
didn’t know that was going to happen and what came out
when he wasn’t expecting anything showed what he really was—and he
didn’t like that.
How do we
change what we really are when we don’t like what we see? Only Jesus
Christ has the answer to that and we’re going to look at that next.
If Christians
now have a new heart, a new spiritual nature which desires to obey God,
if the Holy Spirit lives in us, then why do we still experience such
strong temptations? Why do we still experience sinful desires? Are we
weird? Are we different from all other Christians? The answer is, we are
not weird, just ignorant. We don’t know all God has said on this topic,
nor do we know His answer of how we can experience victory. How do I
know that true Christians struggle with this problem and that there is a
victorious solution to it? It’s because the Apostle Paul struggled with
this same problem and wrote all about it in Romans, chapters 6 and 7.
If you read
Romans 6:11-19, you will see that Paul talks about his sinful
disposition, his sinful nature, and personifies it. He calls his sinful
nature sin in verses 6, 7, 11, 12, 14, 17, 18 and personifies it in the
form of a slave master who ruthlessly controls him and keeps him doing
things he doesn’t want to do. Before Paul became a Christian, his sinful
disposition, like a slave master, taught him how to live selfishly and
to gratify his flesh. He kept leading him in sinful ways. But then when
Paul became a Christian, he came to realize what God through sending
Christ to die for him on the cross had done for him.
In Romans 6:6
Paul writes, "For we know that our old self was crucified with Him
(that’s Jesus) so that the body of sin might be done away with, that we
should no longer be slaves to sin." God took his old self, that is, his
old unregenerate man with its sinful deeds, and crucified it with
Christ. The reason God did this was so that our body of sin, our sinful
track record, might be done away with.
But God did
something else as well "so that we should no longer be slaves to sin."
Paul learned that when he believed in Christ, he was somehow united by
God with Christ in Christ’s death.
Through
Christ’s blood our sins were paid for. Through Christ’s body, in which
He lived a perfect life, Christ broke the hold that our slave master,
sin, had on all human beings who believe. Christ legally freed us from
our slave master’s authority.
Romans 8:1
says, "Therefore there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ."
The word condemnation here means that the believer is not condemned to a
life of servitude to the sinful disposition. As F. F. Bruce writes in
his commentary on Romans, Paul is teaching that "there is no reason why
those who are in Christ Jesus should go on doing penal servitude as
though they had never been pardoned and never been liberated from the
prison house of sin."
Paul, in
Romans 6:18, says point-blank we have been freed from sin. But in what
sense does Paul think he has been freed from sin? Is he saying that he
is completely freed from sin’s temptations and desires? The answer is
obviously no! In Romans 7 Paul says he still is struggling with his old
master, sin. Paul is teaching that Christ freed him in the legal sense.
His sinful nature has no official authority or right, no legal right to
control him anymore. because Christ has legally set us free, and we are
not obligated anymore to serve sin.
Paul advises,
"Do not let sin reign in your mortal body that you should obey its
lusts; and do not go on presenting the members of your body to sin."
Paul says,
"Don’t present your body to this slave master [sin] when he tempts you;
rather, present yourself to God as those alive from the dead and your
members as instruments of righteousness to God."
Because of
Christ’s life and death for us, God’s Word promises, "For sin shall not
be master over you, for you are not under law but under grace."
We need to
know this and believe it. But if this is true, what’s the problem, then?
If we’ve been freed from sin by the grace of God to serve the Lord, if
He has given us a new heart, a new spiritual nature, given us the Holy
Spirit to take up residence in our life, if we have been legally freed
from our old sinful master officially ruling over us, then why do we
still have problems?
In the very
next chapter the Apostle Paul tells us why. He teaches that, although we
are legally free not to follow our sinful nature, it still exists and
tries to illegally control us. Even with our new spiritual nature that
God has given us, if we try in our own strength, our own efforts to live
according to our new desires and to fight against our sinful natures’
temptations and desires, we will fail. Paul tells us he himself failed
in trying to live the Christian life by his own self efforts. He teaches
us that the only way to live victoriously is to look to, and depend
upon, the Holy Spirit to give us the power we need to conquer our old
sinful nature.
Let’s look at
Paul’s account of his personal struggle in this area after he became a
Christian. It’s recorded in Romans 7:14-24. Remember, he is writing as
one who has become a Christian, one who has a new heart from the Lord.
He tells us up
front, "For that which I am doing I do not understand; for I am not
practicing what I would like to do, but I am doing the very thing I
hate." Paul is saying, God gave me a new heart, as He promised, and so
now I desire to serve and obey God’s law. But in spite of my new heart,
I still find myself doing just the opposite and committing sins.
He says in
verse 19, "For the good that I wish, I do not do, but I practice the
very evil that I do not wish." Paul says he still practices doing evil.
He sins. Why? It’s because even though he is a Christian with a new
spiritual nature, his old sinful nature is still trying to illegally
control him. And apparently it is no match for Paul’s good intentions.
It can still trap and conquer him.
He writes: "If
I am doing the very thing I do not wish, I am no longer the one doing it
but sin which dwells in me."
Here Paul is
not saying that he is not responsible for giving in to these sinful
desires. What he is saying is that the origination of these desires is
coming from his old sinful nature, which now that he is a new creation
in Christ, is not really his true self.
He continues,
"I find then the principle that evil is present in me, the one
who wishes to do good. For I joyfully concur with the law of God in the
inner man, but I see a different law in the members of my body, waging
war against the law of my mind…. Wretched man that I am! Who will set me
free from the body of this death?" Here Paul admits that even though he
is a Christian and has a new heart that desires to serve and obey the
Lord, he has discovered, "Evil is still present in me." This evil
present in him "wages war against the law of his mind. It makes him a
prisoner of the law of sin." This can be none other than Paul’s old
sinful disposition that is still present within him even though it has
no legal claim over him. So what is the bottom line?
Are Paul and
all Christians everywhere condemned to being constantly defeated by
their powerful old natures, even though they are Christians? The answer
is no.
Paul indicates
why he failed in his struggle with his old nature. Twenty-three times in
eleven verses of Romans chapter 7 Paul uses the word "I." But in Chapter
8, 17 times in 16 verses Paul uses the word "spirit" or "Spirit of God."
The point Paul is making is that when he depended on his own strength
and power to live the Christian life, he failed. When he depended on God
the Holy Spirit to give him the power he needed, he had victory. So when
we become Christians, God can forgive our sins and give us a new
spiritual nature. But that new spiritual nature which desires to serve
the Lord, does not have the power in itself to actually give us victory
over our old nature. That’s why God also gave us the Holy Spirit to live
within us. It’s only when we look to and depend on the power of the Holy
Spirit that we will be able to follow the desires of our new heart, and
conquer those things we face from within and without. It is the Holy
Spirit’s power, not our own, that will bring us victory. Every believer
who has the new spiritual nature that God has given him but who tries to
live for God in his own self effort, in his own self generated power,
will miserably fail. Is that you right now?
Even though
Christ’s life and death freed us from the legal mastery of our old
sinful disposition, we must understand that our old sinful nature is
still within us and can overpower us if we try to overcome it in our own
power. But if we turn to the Holy Spirit, we can utilize His power to
live the way we should. That is what the Apostle Paul is teaching here.
In Romans 8:11
he promises, "If the Spirit of Him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells
in you, He who raised Christ Jesus from the dead"—that is God—"will also
give life to your mortal bodies through His Spirit who indwells you."
In Ephesians
3:16, Paul writes, "I pray that out of his glorious riches He may
strengthen you with power through His Spirit in your inner being so that
Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith." This power, God’s power,
is available to every believer. What are we to do with such a gift?
Paul advises,
"So then, brethren, we are under obligation, not to the flesh [our old
nature] to live according to the flesh....but if by the Spirit you are
putting to death the deeds of the body, you will live."
At home I have
an electric power saw, a drill and a grinder. Like my mind, will and
emotions, these tools all serve different functions. Yet all three tools
plug into the same power source, electricity. Electricity is their life.
Without that life, without that power, all my tools are nothing but big
paperweights. My mind, will and emotions also must be plugged into the
power of the Holy Spirit so that God’s spiritual life can flow through
me and give me victory over sinful desires and habits. If you have
failed God, ask Him right now to forgive you; then tell Him from now on
you will, moment by moment, be asking the Holy Spirit to help you live
for Him.